10 Tips for Picky Eaters | Getting Kids to Eat Healthy

10 Tips for Picky Eaters | Getting Kids to Eat Healthy

Do you have picky eaters? Are you struggling to get your kids to eat healthy, try new foods, or eat their meals? Keep reading for 10 TIPS FOR PICKY EATERS and learn to make your meal times easier. 

I’m far from a perfect parent, but one thing I have managed to figure out to-at least to some degree- is how to avoid the dreaded picky eater.

While my children will all go through mild “picky stages”, it’s never been too much of an issue, and with just a few exceptions will eat almost anything I put in front of them, and eat a lot!

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So today, I thought I’d share with you my 10 tips for picky eaters, and getting kids to eat healthy food:

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10 TIPS FOR PICKY EATERS

Tip #1: Don’t make them a separate meal

I know this can sound a little mean, but as busy moms we just don’t have the time to cater to every single individuals preferences!
It may even be tempting to make a separate meal because it feels like less work than getting your children to sit there and EAT THEIR FOOD!

But in the long-haul, is this something that is both beneficial to you and your children?

If they are hungry, they’ll eat it. And if they refuse to eat it, save it for later. When they are hungry and want a snack later on, have them eat their meal first and then they can have a snack!

Tip #2: Find healthy substitutions to their favorite foods

Finding a healthy substitution to your child’s favorite snack or meal that they love just as much can be key to getting your kids to eat healthy foods, especially if you are working on improving their diet and taking the “junk food” out.

I put together the CONVERTING THE PICKY EATER CHEAT SHEET to help you do just this. It lists some of my family’s favorite healthy substitutions and brands for everything from cookies to pasta. You can download and print it here:

Tip #3: Don’t make a huge deal about the meal

I’ve learned to not talk to much about what I’m making for dinner. I never promise them anything or talk anything up. Instead, I just sort of cook and then call them when it is ready, we sit down, and we eat.

If you make a big deal about a meal ahead of time, or tell them that they have to eat their food, it can raise stress levels and  expectations and cause children to act out more.

Just keep it chill and have a fun time together around the table!

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Tip #4: Serve dips and sauces with your meals and snacks

Kids LOVE to dip their food in things. Use this to your advantage! Ranch, BBQ sauce, ketchup mayonnaise… the healthy versions that is!

This is our favorite organic bbq sauce.

This is an amazing paleo approved Ranch and salad dressings. 

Tip #5: Let you kids help in the kitchen

I know how this can be hard sometimes if you’re a bit stressed or in a hurry, but it’s a huge payback.

Children love to be involved and in return want to eat the food that they helped make.

Let them pour ingredients into the bowl, help stir, ladle things into dishes. You can even have some safety child knives that they can use to help cut up the soft veggies or fruit .

Tip #6: Offer an “incentive” (also known as a bribe) 😉

I try not to do this too often. But sometimes children need a little encouragement and something to look forward to, just like adults.

Don’t bribe them with sugary treats, but simply let them know that when they finish their meal there will be something they enjoy. Maybe a piece of fruit or some raisins and that usually does the trick!

Tips #7: Serve small portions

I usually just put a small portion of each thing on their plate. Then I let them finish that and if they want more I’ll give them a little more of what they enjoyed.

Try not to load their plate up because it can be pretty overwhelming to them of how much they have to eat, especially if its something they don’t like that much.

It’s so simple, yet makes such a difference!

Tip #8: Don’t give snacks

This tip may not be applicable to every person in your family at all times.

If you have toddlers or little one in the house, they may need to eat frequently. I know when my kids are little they will have melt downs if they don’t have food in their bellies every couple hours! Especially when they are really active and going through big growth spurts.

But I have tried to make our snack time a bit more like meal times, where we either sit at the table to eat them or go outside together and eat them.

As your kids get older it will get easier to not have snacks or not as many snacks because you want them to be hungry at meal times.

Tip #9: Make food FUN!

My kids love finger food, anything they can pick up and eat with their hands or arrange themselves on their plates. Things like ants on a log- I’ll spread the PB on the celery and let them place the raisins on the “log”.

Anything that is a bit more fun or cute and interactive is usually more enjoyable for them.

Tip #10: Disguise vegetables

I use this tip sparingly because I do want my kids to like and enjoy vegetables and their whole form as well.

But I will sometimes do this, especially if I have a child that is going through a pickier stage.

For example: I’ll steam up a big pot of broccoli and then put it in my VitaMix with marinara and blend it all up and use it for spaghetti sauce.

Or, I might blend up things like carrots or beets and put them in homemade muffins, or even add some kale and/or cucumber to our smoothies! If your kids are really picky,  just make sure it doesn’t change the color of the smoothie.

Also, VEGGIE POPSICLES! Grab some good quality juice and then blend/juice some veggies and mix it in and freeze! (sometimes I even just throw in some barley grass powder)

I hope these are some fun and helpful tips for you and your family. Of course, each kid and every family is different so you’ll have to adjust as you need to, but these are things that my kids seem to work well with.

I’d love to hear what tips work best for getting your picky eaters to eat healthy food!

Best of luck, mama!

Stay at Home Moms are Lazy

Stay at Home Moms are Lazy

Stay at home moms are LAZY. Stay at home moms are ANNOYING. Stay at home moms are THE WORST. Do you feel shock or even shame when you hear these statements?

“Stay-home-moms are LAZY”

I recently participated in a local fundraising event. I was standing on the stage with the other participants, as the MC introduced us, one by one.

When he began to introduce  one of the other woman participants, he said, “This is ‘Suzi’. She is a local stay-at-home mom who eats bonbons all day”.

And everyone laughed.

“Suzi” who is extremely active in the community, has a well known career and is looked up to as a hard working professional. She isn’t currently a stay at home mom, although she is a mother. And so the statement so obviously wasn‘t true and was clearly meant as a joke, no one thought anything of it.

Except for me.

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Standing on that brightly lit stage, in front of all those people, I suddenly felt incredibly vulnerable and self conscious. Even though the joke wasn’t directed at me, and most of the people there probably didn’t even know I was a stay-at-home mama, I felt a sudden, unexpected sharp stab of shame hit me in the stomach.

I had to fight an almost uncontrollable urge to hide so that I didn’t run off the stage in humiliation.

“Stay-at-home-mom’s are WORTHLESS”

It was a gut reaction, and in the moment, I didn’t understand why I felt that way. Later, when I had time to think about it, I still wasn’t sure.

I’m not ashamed of being a stay at home mom. Or at least, I didn’t think I was.

So why did I feel such embarrassment when a joke was made?

I mulled it over for a little while, and then forgot about it for a few days. But later in the week, I happened across this video:

VIDEO: WHY HAVE WE STIGMATIZED AND MARGINALIZED THE STAY-AT-HOME-MOM?


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The Stay-At-Home-Mom on Google

This video brings up some interesting points, and speaks to a lot of what I was feeling but was unable to put words to.

I also tried Googling what he suggests in the video. I Googled “stay at home moms are…”.

Here are the results I got:

  • Stay at home moms are lazy.
  • Stay at home moms are freeloaders
  • Stay at home moms are annoying
  • Stay at home moms are not your babysitter (that one made me chuckle!)
  • Stay home moms are the worse

SAY WHAAAAT?!

I have so many questions now.

Am I Ashamed to be a Stay at Home Mom?

Is there an unconscious (or maybe conscious?) stigma against “stay-at-home” moms (and moms) that has become so deeply ingrained in our society that Google would auto-suggest terms like this?

Is this belief so deeply ingrained in our society that it’s become a subconscious belief of most of us?

Do I believe this?

I don’t think I do. But why else would I feel so much shame over a joke if it wasn’t something that I also believed on some level?

Is the stigma held equally against working moms, and all mothers in general? Or is it stronger against the SAHM?

(I’d like to add here that while I am currently a stay-at-home-mom, I have nothing but MAD RESPECT for working moms, as well. I’ve done both, and they both have their own unique challenges and benefits).

“Stay-at-home-mom’s are ANNOYING”

So as I stood on that brightly lit stage, fighting the urge to melt into the floor in embarrasement, with those words echoing in my head:

“a stay-at-home-mom who eats bonbons all day”…

…and all I could was that, some day, I was going to get me some of those darn bonbons and see what all the fuss was about!

But I mean, SERIOUSLY? Who even eats bonbons, anyway?!

Stay at Home Moms are AMAZING

I know that I actually AM proud to be a stay-at hoe-mom. And I am SO grateful that I am fortuate enough to get to make that choice for myself and my family. I know that not everyone does.

So I say GOOLE, YOU’RE DRUNK. Go home!

It’s time to change the narrative.

Because Stay at Home Moms are:

AMAZING

STRONG

CREATIVE

GOOD PARENTS

HARDWORKING

SMART

Are you a stay at home mom? Do you ever feel ashamed or stigmatized because of it? Drop me a comment…I would  would love to hear your thoughts and experiences on the subject.

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